Does size matter?

Hmmm, does penis size matter? That’s the question one of the ‘commenters’ on this blog wants us to answer. Before I can really answer this question I need to think of some of the different penises I have been involved with in the past and compare and contrast ‘performance’ with size.

The first penis that comes to mind belongs to Juan. Juan is Cuban, a hot salsa dancer and has the biggest dick I have ever seen in my life. I am not joking or exaggerating when I say the length was a good 12 inches and the girth about 9 inches. I tell you the first time I saw that ‘monster’ I wanted to run. I though shit, what the f*ck have I let myself in for. However, we were past the point of no return, I couldn’t very well turn around say ‘Sorry, I have changed my mind because you have a monster of a dick’. To my eternal surprise, sex with Juan wasn’t torturous. In fact, it was the opposite. Before proceeding to ‘main play’ Juan would go down on me and not come up for air until I had come three times! Somehow ‘main play’ afterwards was just fine.

Now I would like to compare Juan with Bola, a Nigerian brethren. Before I met Juan I thought Bola had a huge penis...sex with him was sometimes uncomfortable depending on the position we were in. Sometimes I would be like ‘Ow, ow,ow...’ Bola is one of those brothers who liked to perform sexual acrobatics in bed. I would barely get comfortable in one position and then he would want to flip me into a different position. I really liked Bola as a person but when it came to sex he didn’t really rock my world. My conclusion was that he was a selfish lover who cared more for his orgasm than he did for mine.

In my humble opinion the vast majority of brothers are very much average sized when it comes to penis size. What makes the difference to me is the effort the guy puts into pleasuring me. If he puts ‘his back into it’, then the size of the penis makes little difference to me. If I have to choose I will pick Mr Average over Mr Small or Mr Big. How about you? Does size matter to you? Guys, do you feel paranoid about the size of your penis? Has a woman ever complained or given you cause for concern about the size of your penis?

Nana Darkoa